What’s the biggest mistake men make when dating?

So let’s start off with the first complaint that men show off or try to impress too much. Don’t offer your résumé, you’re earning potential, and tell us how you will change our lives the first time you meet is. Ask women questions instead of talking about yourself the whole time. And do not come on too strong or be too touchy. Let us figure out if we are into you instead of telling us that you are.

The second complaint, men are famous for the disappearing act. I think it is because I lot of guys would rather avoid an uncomfortable situation then face one. But you are not doing anyone a favor. If you have dated someone for a while just a FYI, Don’t end up MIA or you will get a bad reputation. Communication is usually the way to go with a woman.

In the third complaint, which I have heard a lot. Is that men do not listen to women when they are talking. I have heard a few comedians talking about the greatest gift a woman can give a man is silence, ouch. Okay it is true that we use too many words, I agree with that. But we really notice when you stop listening to us, or interrupt us, or ask is the same question again. I mean you really need to focus on the woman across from you and listen to what she has to say.

And the fourth complaint, men are chivalrous. Yeah, yeah, we are confusing. We want you to treat us like equals but we also want you to treat us like women. It is nice when a man opens the door, or picks up the tab. It may be old-fashioned but a lot of women report that dating a gentleman matters.

And the fifth thing that women complain about is that men do not initiate enough. I know that is confusing because no women want you to just rip off the close of their night into you, or be too aggressive. Dates have gone by and you feel the chemistry is there, and the woman is interested. In one way you can tell a woman is interested is that she has invited you up to her apartment, where she is letting the date go well into the night. Well that is the time to make your move and be a bit frisky, and make the woman feel desirable.

Also plan a fantastic day instead of saying I don’t know when booking your next get-together. The bottom line is taken initiative. Easy right? I know that we can send mixed messages. But try not to commit any of these five mistakes and you already be ahead in the dating game. Remember that even a bad date makes a great story so get out there and always have fun; I am Andrea Syrtash see you next time.