What are the biggest mistakes women make in dating?
Women are too critical and negative, no one wants to date a nag, so stop complaining about how much dating stinks and how many guys suck. Don’t try to change the guy and tell him how he should act or what he should do; it is ok to challenge a guy without criticizing him. Remember mist guys want to date a woman with a god attitude and an open mind.
Women talk too much, it is exhausting to go out with a woman who barely takes a breath between sentences. Stop going on and on about your job, you’re ex boyfriend, or how annoying one of your girlfriends is. A few guys want the play by play of what you did today. Remember slow down, and take a breath, ask him a few questions and listen.
Women are too high maintenance, I once knew a gal who thought that $1200 purses would attract more men to her. I don’t know how many guys are into these things and I actually think the average guy doesn’t know the difference between a Prada purse and the Chinatown special. I think guys who know you are dressed in designer everything may get scared off. Women if your hair is too perfectly quaffed and your wearing tons of makeup you make look like you just cant have fun, let loose, and be touched and that is certainly not the message you want to send to a guy you like.
Women are too insecure, dating can be nerve-racking, and I totally get that it wakes up some insecurities, but as much as you can remember to smile and make eye contact, you will already appear more comfortable. Don’t talk about how fat you feel and don’t talk about your faults or how many guys have dumped you it is just not that attractive.
And finally women come on too strong. Ever see the movie how to loose a guy in ten days? Watch it again; don’t talk about how cute your kids will be the wedding colors you love, and don’t start baking him cakes and buying him sweaters right away. Planning your next twenty years together is really not attractive at the beginning of dating a new person. Remember some mystery is good. The good news is we all make mistakes in dating and it helps to remember you are not alone. Just remember not to commit any of these dating mistakes and you will all ready be ahead in the dating game.
Remember even a bad date makes a great story so get out there and have always have fun, I am Andrea Syrtash and see you next time.