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If you are asking yourself, ‘Will I ever find my soul mate?’ maybe it is time you started looking online.
The chances of finding your soul mate on in the internet are probably a lot better than you think. After all, pretty much everyone goes online these days and you can find people there that you would never meet in the street. If you are in a job where you do not meet many people that you could date, or if you live way out in the country, the internet will introduce you to a whole new world.
Going online is also something you can do very quickly in the middle of a busy life. You can write a few emails on your lunch break or in an internet cafe. You do not have to be home waiting for the phone to ring. You just log in to your email account whenever you can, and see what – or who – is waiting there for you.
Of course, you have to be persistent. You may have to exchange email with a few frogs before you hook up with your prince. But do not write people off too soon. Remember, in the story, the frog changed into a prince.
Your soul mate probably will not be the person you think is drop dead gorgeous from his photo. You may feel an instant attraction or you may not. Chemistry is not there in the same way when we look at a photo as when we meet a person, so try not to decide until you meet him.
On the other hand, it is an advantage that online dating sites allow us to find out a lot about a person before we meet him. You will know his age, job, whether he has children and his likes and dislikes. But instead of using that information to decide whether he is your soul mate, use it to get to know him better. Ask him about his job, show an interest in his kids, find things that you have in common.
One of the main ways that people connect, make friends, build relationships and feel safe with another person, is by finding links between them. This can be anything from enjoying the same movie or wearing the same color shirt to discovering that your aunt once worked in the building where his brother’s business is based. We love to feel that it is a small world, it makes us feel secure. So use your emails to build these links, or give him enough information that he can see the links for himself.
Another great thing about looking for Mr Right online is that both of you probably do not feel so shy. Many people have trouble talking to a stranger but writing a few lines about yourself is easy for most of us. If you do not know what to say in your emails, look to see if he has asked you any questions. Answer them briefly, then ask him a few questions. It is best if the questions that you ask follow on from what you were just telling, so that you do not seem to be interrogating him.
Remind yourself every day, ‘I will find my soul mate online!’ and very soon your dreams could be coming true.
What is a “soulmate”?
Let me distinguish three types of relationships. The first type of relationship is a karmic relationship. Karmic relationship is that you learn lessons together but these lessons are kind of individually given to you. You have certain elements in your life that you need to learn. Your partner has certain elements, certain situations to overcome in his or her life. Karmic relationship is that you have a share of minds, your minds are alike, you both love certain movies, and you both love certain food. That’s not a soulmate. That’s a karmic relationship, 95% of the relationships are this way. Now, the soulmate is more energetically dominated, energy-wise dominated. You have the same frequency, the same vibration as the other person. If you have the same vibration that is innate in your system, in your being you will recognize that. However, you cannot consciously recognize it, but it does feel like that you have met somebody and feel that you have known this person for ages. It’s like an instant comfort level. The lessons to be learned in the areas of the different chakras are similar. That’s a share of soul, or share of energy which is so profound that it overrides the share of minds.
What are some common misconceptions about soul mates?
Well the first misconception is that the soul mate is the ideal person. A soul mate, you know, if you vibrate the same frequency in the different chakras, you know, and it depends on how many. . .you have seven, so take three out of seven. You feel that instant connection. It’s more than a contact. It’s a connection. You have something really, really, really deeply in common and you cannot easily get your head around it consciously. Now, the interesting thing is that you think that that’s great and easy, but there’s also share of minds. And we tend nowadays to look for the similarities of opinions and choices and judgments and then feel that we are connected with each other. With soul mates, it might be another way around. I can be your soul mate and objectively we are a perfect match, but in the mind area, we can have different opinions and complete differences about the view of life or something or a vacation or food or movies or whatever you find out. People tend to focus on the mind stuff. So they’ve found their soul mate and all of a sudden, it’s not the person that is so in tune with what they think about life. Therefore, it’s more difficult than a karmic relationship.
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What is the secret to attracting a soulmate?
First of all the secret to attracting a soulmate is knowing the mind is how you think about yourself, how you think about a soulmate and how you feel about attracting somebody in your life. How you tell others things and how you speak. Do you speak proactively or do you speak in a destructive kind of way like “I always run into the bad relationships” for instance. That’s a destructive way of talking to yourself and if you behave in a certain way, if you are in situations or surroundings where you have shifted the conditions to to attract somebody into your life, that’s another part. That’s the physical part of it. That’s two adults in alignment. People think that they will find their soul mate in a bar. No. Absolutely not. That is not the secret to attracting a soulmate. In order to find a soulmate, you need to put the intention out there and be convinced that that person exists. And when you really feel, think, speak and act accordingly, then you will attract the person into your life that suits you the best.